oct 15 update

 

This site is now being reconstructed to make way for a members only area, so for the next 2 or 3 weeks it will be a bit all-over-the-place.  Sorry for that.

Meanwhile my clips are still available on clips4sale.com

There are eighteen new ones, and more will be added regularly. I particularly recommend “hers was bigger than his”…a surprising clip…three cops came out of nowhere and one of them looked straight at me…and then one of the girls pulls out this huge camera…interesting clip!

I have kept the cost to the minimum allowed, and I plan to keep it to this minimum

Check it out  HERE  and return every once in a while because you will find some new clips there…

Each clip can be previewed…

As for haveUbeenflashed.com…

I’m applying to make it a pay only site.   I will keep the price down to $4.95 per month.  I may raise it sometime in the future to $9.95, but I make the undertaking that anyone who joins for $4.95 can have it for that price for life.  It will take a few weeks to set this up…

I’ll keep you updated.


 
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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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sep 25 update…

All I can say at this point is that this site is not viable…it is all outgoing and virtually nothing is incoming…ideally there should be a balance between the two…

In other words I have to find a way to make the site pay for it’s own way…

That is what I’m looking into at the moment…

I’ll keep you updated…

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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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sep 23 update…

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First of all, those of you who sent in their email addresses, these have been noted and where necessary I will use the email addresses to update you…

Next, I want to thank Karl who has offered to do my webmaster work for me free of charge.  If the site is to continue, I WILL take up that offer, Karl.  Thanks.

Now down to brass tacks…

As it stands, the site is largely a negative experience for me….loads of work and no money…John has a great idea…he says: Another idea I have for your site is to convert your site to a more viewer supplied format, instead of you doing all the videos, get us readers to send you videos. What a mountain of research data that should produce…

Yes it would…and sooner or later that is the path this site will probably take…there are some people out there doing these kinds of videos with excellent results…unnam and steve shine, for example…they are “friendly flasher” type videos…where the girls for the most part enjoy themselves, have a laugh, take some photos, etc…they would be the kind of videos I’d be looking for…

But in the meantime let’s look at the …er…bottom line…

There are more than 30,000 unique visitors to this site every month…

Just think…if a VERY FEW…if only one-tenth of one third (that is, 1000 people) sent in $10 per month, that would be  $10,000 per month for me…

Now let me ask you a question: If I was getting $10,000 per month, do you think I would EVER close the site?  NOT A CHANCE!!

I hope we are on the same page here…

1000 people is only a very small percentage of the visitors to this site…and as the site grows in popularity it will be an ever smaller and smaller percent, and…

$10 per month is something that almost anyone can afford without incurring hardship.  Right!?

In other words if a small percentage of visitors paid $10 per month, it would be to my considerable advantage to keep this site open.  But at the moment, when I’m continually running in the red, the exact opposite is the case…it is to my considerable advantage to close the site…

In other words, and as I’ve said many a time…this is YOUR site…you hold the trump card and the trump card is money.

Come on guys.  Is this site worth $10 per month to you?

Sorry to be so money-oriented, but THERE IS a money issue and the money thing will not go away all by itself

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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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Sep 20 update

sorry guys…

about a month ago I started wondering, “What am I doing?”

I’m working until 3 and 4am, sometimes even longer, and all that is happening is that I’m getting further into debt…

and if I was to keep the site going, I would have to hire a webmaster to straighten it out…

as most of you will agree, the site is hardly very professional as it is, and…

webmasters do not come cheap!

In other words I can’t just keep sinking money into this

So I need to do a major re-think to see what direction this site should go…

meanwhile I do recommend the book, “The Exhibitionist” FOR ONLY $6.50!!

You can check it out  HERE

or you can buy it through AMAZON

again…only $6.50 for more than 300 pages of good reading!!

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If you want me to keep you in the loop, please send me your email address in the comments box,

and I will inform you of any new developments

thanks, guys!

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Sep 13 update…

Hi guys

I’m going to have to take a sabbatical…

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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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august 28 update

the wowsers are back! in their self-appointed roles as protectors of women!

and rightly so!  after all, if they don’t “stand up” for the women, who will???

clearly the women need protection from degenerate exhibitionists!!

everyone knows that…except the women… who are quite capable of looking after themselves and probably view these chauvinistic “protectors” of their honour as far more insulting than any act of exhibitionism…

Says lawrence…Why is exhibitionism still illegal? We I would hope it’s because we live in a civilized society and exposing your genitals to unsuspecting girls/women is degrading to them and can be very frightening in the wrong circumstances. You really are one sick f*&k and to try and justify what your doing just shows how sick in the head you are.

 why, oh why, lawrence  is nudity “degrading to women”…???

the only thing degrading about nudity, lawrence, is what is in your own mind!!

Secondly, assuming (just for a moment) that male nudity is degrading to women, I would of course ask lawrence, is the converse true??  That is, when women flash their thong panties and their cleavages…is that degrading to men??  Well, personally I don’t feel degraded when women flash their tits.  I sorely suspect that the only victim here is lawrence, who is a victim of his own double standard!

Unfortunately all this will be lost on lawrence who will continue on his chauvinistic charade working himself into a fury of four letter words which he spells with asterisks to show that he really is a nice guy…unfortunately the only person he convinces is himself!!

Says Mike – It could be a ‘hang up’ or ‘repression’, or it could be they just ate and don’t want to vomit. That IS a rather unattractive cock.

        Mike criticizes my dick, saying that it is not at all attractive.  Well, maybe so.  But like lawrence, mike misses the point.  Exhibitionism is NOT about having a beautiful dick…it is about NUDITY – and about confronting the strong taboos that surround nudity (esp. male nudity) in public!

It doesn’t matter if you have a green dick.  If you are male and you are naked in public, you cross a line and you will get reactions, both favourable and otherwise.  If your dick looks like a shriveled prune, you will still get the full gamut of reactions…

In other words exhibitionism is not about having a nice dick but rather about breaking the taboos surrounding nudity – and you can do that with a small dick or a big dick, a beautiful dick or an ugly one.

This will of course be lost on mike but nevertheless I wish him well and hope he finds a dick more to his liking somewhere else…

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let’s move on…

there is more new stuff…

you will find some new “zapped” movies  HERE,   HERE,   HERE,   HERE   and   HERE

a couple of “train shows”  HERE  and  HERE

a new vid from unnam (who says it is his “best ever”)  HERE

and probably the most important video of them all, certainly the most thought provoking:  san francisco nude

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 and one last thing…support this site…check out  BURN THE FAT!!

this fat burning program has been around since about 2002 and is still going strong.  it is a no-nonsense, no-bullshit program that works and has stood the test of time…

if you are an exhibitionist you will want to look good!!!  so check it out  HERE

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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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august 22 update…

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A bunch of new stuff…

First off…some new videos from unnam…you will find them  HERE

There is also one in the zapped section…HERE

A compilation of videos of women who did not want to look, and hey…

That is OK…they are free to look or not to look!

You will find it HERE

A bus show…HERE

And a picture show…HERE

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I also want to ask you to support this site

Click on the advertisements and join up, if you feel the program will help you…

I’ve specifically chosen advertisements that will enhance the exhibitionist lifestyle…

For example, check out LOVE SYSTEMS

It is probably the leading program that helps you develop your conversational skills with women!

In short…a better reaction from women, every which way!

But also…conversational skills will be useful for you in every area of your life!

Click  HERE  to watch a couple of videos

Or click  HERE to go to the love system website…

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I just want to finish with a comment from Lawrence.  Here it is…

Why is it still illegal? We I would hope it’s because we live in a civilized society and exposing your genitals to unsuspecting girls/women is degrading to them and can be very frightening in the wrong circumstances. You really are one sick f*&k and to try and justify what your doing just shows how sick in the head you are.

Lawrence does bring up a good point.  He says…

exposing your genitals to unsuspecting girls/women is degrading to them

really???

What is degrading about the naked body?

God (if you believe in God) created the body

What is degrading about that???

If people are degraded by the sight of a naked body

The problem is in their own psyche, and not in the naked body!!!

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Lawrence m’boy…I suggest that you wakey, wakey

And display your penis, instead of your repressed upbringing!

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I’ll sign off now…but once again, support the website…

click on the adverts and join up, if you think the product will help you

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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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aug 12 update…

 

 

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This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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in an effort to help me, my good friend, Steven Shine, aka Bernard Z Grate, sent this email to the owner of Luscious Media (who owns a HUGE number of CFNM sites)…said the email…

tom i know of this guy who is a bit weird, a bit of a genius, has a good sense of humor, although is stubborn and wicked, all wrapped up into one.

he is trying to make money, for several reasons.

1- he needs a good lawyer, for he is on trial in august for using a hidden camera in an australian public place.

2- he has his own web site that has TONS OF BALLS

it’s called www.haveubeenflashed.com

he is NUTSO!

he believes that flashing is ok, and it should be accepted by the mainstream public!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

meanwhile, what can i say? his site is INSANE, for if i were him i would be scared shitless, but he feels flashing is just fine!!!

well…Steve is good…he calls you nutso and makes it feel like it is a compliment…but the point is…this is a unique website…help it along…please donate!!!

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Steven has this further to say…

andrew from here on out, don’t call it flash, or flashing,

flashing has a horrible thing to it, and it sounds dirty.

don’t call your site have you been flashed, it works AGAINST YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

call what your doing accidental dressing.

dressed in a hurry

wardrobe malfunction.

ridiculous clothing

cfnm walking

all of those expressions are clean new without bad feelings.

but the word flashed flashing stem back to the 1930′s and is considered perverted perverts, sickos weirdos and men who open up raincoats in parks after dark and then chase and rape their victums

that is not US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

flashing is WRONG BAD FRIGHTING

being dressed too quickly and running out of the house minding your own business, is something else, that’s innocent, and acceptable.

re  name your site

hey…I agree with Steve…the word flashing has all sorts of connotations that we can well do without…as I pointed out to Steve…I do not use the word flashing in respect of my own activities…

one of the nastiest connotations of the word “flashing” is that it creates a class of “victims” who got “flashed”…

and that simply is not correct…

“victims” are people who suffer harm, and viewing the male organ does not harm anyone…

but while we continue to use the word “flashing”…it will conjure up this victim mentality

let’s call our activity by some other name

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July 20 update

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well, we’ve finally fixed the comment boxes…

when I updated the site, it defaulted to comment boxes where you have to enter your email…

that was never my intention…however, it was difficult in the extreme to undo this

however that has now been done and you can leave comments, without entering your email addresses, and….

please DO enter your comments, both good and bad…I DO need the feedback…

Also keep an eye out for material on this site, that is off the beaten track

For example DO WATCH THIS

Also visit the “no” section occasionally, as it does have some good stuff

And do NOT forget the photo gallery

there is some very good material there…with a new selection of photos coming soon on artists’ models!!!

Likewise the “reactions” section (in walkabout naked) is shaping up to be a good one

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Please note:
This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.
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update july 4

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comment from turk…

you need to post more vids. get your shit together son and stop waisting my time. i check ur site everyday and nothing is added son. come through come throuch but come fast ya. you know what i mean when i say come fast.

my reply

thanks for your forthright comment, turk.
At the moment I have to prepare for my upcoming court case…
so here is my forthright comment…
If you (or anyone else) can donate some money, then I can hire a solicitor to do the work for me, and I will be free to post more videos…
We’re all in this together, son…
the more you can help, the more I can do…
hope that makes sense…

in short…

I will be posting more videos, but a lot of my time will be spent preparing my court case which will severely limit the time I have for the videos.

Please understand…this is your website, at least in the sense that the more you help, the better it will be.  ALL HELP HELPS!  Send in your comments, send in your videos, send in some links, sends in some money…it all goes toward making this site better

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please note: all donations are done through paypal and have no connection whatsoever to this site!

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Please note:
This site is dedicated to the study of the female reaction to the naked male – CFNM for short – in all its aspects, and whether by video, photo or text. Perhaps the most controversial aspect of this study is the phenomenon called flashing, or exhibitionism, which is still illegal in some countries.
While we do NOT encourage flashing in countries where it is against the law, we do believe that such laws are out of touch with present-day public sentiment and we hope that our study of the subject will lead to a re-assessment of those laws.
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By entering the site you certify that you are 18+, that you understand that HaveUBeenFlashed contains writings, photos and videos about CFNM and flashing, that you consider such topics neither offensive nor obscene and that it is legal for you to view such material in your area.

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